In brief, and hopefully in answer to some of your questions:
Next week the shippers come and pack our flat up to move it all
Then J flies in just over a week
I go on October 12th, after hopefully closing everything down here
We stay for a year (our visas are only for a year) and then we decide what to do depending on jobs, life etc
And when I get there, who knows what I’m going to do, which is one of the exciting and terrifiyng parts!
There is so much whizzing round my brain right now that I don’t really know where to start and what to tell and what to do, I’m currently suffering overload inaction. But hopefully a weekend of sorting things out with J will start to formulate the list of what needs to be done and then I can really really get going.
So any more questions let me know, and thank-you truly so much for your wonderfully supportive response to this. I’m so excited to have finally been able to share and talk to you lovely people about it all!